No matter how well you may know your body, it will be difficult to have fun in bed, if your thoughts are not clear what. Glamour found out what it means to approach sex with the mind. Learn more with video chat with strangers blog. The fact that the source of pleasure, as well as frustration, is in the head, with one voice all the experts suggest. "We used to think about all at once, and sex requires full concentration on the body," - says psychologist Laurie Brotteaux, which studies the impact of the state of mind to sexual stimulation.